I’m a writer in New York. I’ve written for The New Yorker, The Atlantic, The New Republic, Slate, The Daily Beast, The New Inquiry, n+1, Complex, Bookforum, Edge, Billboard, Men’s Health, The Believer, LA Review of Books and many others. I’m also author of the sex memoir Levitate the Primate: Handjobs, Internet Dating, and Other Issues for Men, which The Millions called “a Symposium for heteros,” and The Atlantic selected as one of its “Best Beach Reads for Smart People.”